Focusing on the goodness of a situation or the positive attributes of another person doesn't mean we ignore the problems and difficulties. It simply means to point our energy elsewhere, towards goodness.
As grown women, we find ourselves being ruled by the calendar, do we not? The meetings, the sports schedule, the routine doctor visits, and all the ways we prepare to keep up with our busy lives. Forget all the rest, how about just the grocery listing, shopping, meal planning* & making sure the little people around us are fed?